It’s necessary to say no

It’s necessary to say “No” sometimes

王欣

张晓曼

Do you sometimes say yes to something or someone and then regret it afterwards?

It is very common in our daily life. Many people may think it’s ok and hold the idea that we should try our best to help people, but if you say yes every time even though you should not and really do not want to do that, then you will be taken as a total fool.

For most of us, saying “no” is very difficult because we do not want offend or disappoint people. As a result, we have to spend too much of our time and energy on doing things, which seriously interferes our work. Therefore, even if a request important, sometimes we just have to say “no” in order to make our own room. Always remember, you have every right to say “no” when you want.

Why the word “no” is so difficult to speak out?

1.What’s your feeling when you have to say “No” to your friends?

2.Do you find it hard to say “No”?

3.Do you think it necessary to learn how to say “No”?

against most people`s interests

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①make everyone happy②be hated

Help me to fight? Can I use typewriter?

Can you pass me the answer in the exam?

Would you go with me?

Your friend invite you to the dinner, but you have no time to go . What would say in that case?

Your friends smoke cigarettes. If they offer you one, you don’t want to smoke, what would you say to your friends?

1.Would you like to have a cigarette? ——No, sorry, I don’t smoke 2. I want to invite you to the dinner, would you like to go? ——Thank you for inviting me, but I’m not free tonight. 3. Would you lend me your typewriter? ——I’m sorry, It’s out of order. 4. Help me to fight? ——sorry, I have homework to do.

If she is your best friend You may say:”

I really love to, but I have thousands of things to do….”

If she is just your friend You may say:” I will think about it.”

if you are not familiar with her

You may say:” I am not in the mood.”

If she continues You may say:” I just don’t want to go.”