要花上好些年。
To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.
要学会原谅宽恕。
To learn that there are persons that love them dearly, but simply do not know how to show their feelings.
要知道有很多人深深的爱着他们，只是不知道如何表达他们的感情。
To learn that money can buy everything but happiness.
要懂得钱可以买到很多，却惟独不能买到幸福。
To learn that while at times they may be entitled to be upset, that does not give them the right to upset those around them.
要知道有时自己烦心的时候，并没有权利让周围的人也变得很不开心。
To learn that great dreams do not require great wings, but a landing gear to achieve.
要懂得实现远大的理想并不需要坚实的翅膀，需要的是实现梦想的方法。
To learn that true friends are scarce, he/she who has found one has found a true treasure.
要知道真正的朋友是很少的，找到一个知己的人也就是发现了一笔财富。
To learn that they are masters of what they keep to themselves and slaves of what they say.
要懂得自己是拥有的主宰，却是所说的奴隶。
To learn that they shall reap what they plant; if they plant gossip they will harvest intrigues, if they plant love they will harvest happiness.
要学会播种什么就会收获什么。如果播种的是流言蜚语，收获的也将是阴谋。如果播种爱，便会收获幸福。
To learn that true happiness is not to achieve their goals but to learn to be satisfied with what they already achieved.
要懂得真正的快乐并不是达到目标，而是要学会满足于所获得。
To learn that happiness is a decision. They decide to be happy with what they are and have, or die from envy and jealousy of what they lack.
要知道幸福其实就是一个决定。自己可以决定是幸福的满足于已经拥有的，还是死于对自己所缺的东西的羡慕与嫉妒。
To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.
要知道不同的人对待同样的事物会有完全不同的看法。
To learn that those who are honest with themselves without considering the consequences go far in life.
要懂得不论结果如何都对自己诚实的人生活中就会成功。
To learn that even though they may think they have nothing to give, when a friend cries with them, they find the strength to appease the pain.
要知道，即使有人觉得自己没有什么可以给予的，但有朋友向他们哭诉的时候，他们仍有方法减轻痛苦。
To learn that by trying to hold on to love ones, they very quick
ly push them away; and by letting go of those they love, they will be side by side forever.
要懂得紧紧抓住所爱的人只会让他们很快的离开;试着对自己所爱的人放手，他们才会永远和你在一起。